Saturday, October 23, 2010

Relationships


 
One of my favorites From Prairie Home Companion

OK, in case you don't figure it out right away:

DB plays Roger after the opening statement
SS plays Elaine
GK(Garrison Keillor) is the commenter

Relationships
Saturday, June 14, 1997



DB: Contrary to what many women believe, it's fairly easy to develop a long-term, stable, intimate, and mutually fulfilling relationship with a guy. Of course this guy has to be a Labrador retriever. With human guys, it's extremely difficult. This is because guys don't really grasp what women mean by the term relationship.
GK: Let's say a guy named Roger is attracted to a woman named Elaine. He asks her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty good time. A few nights later he asks her out to dinner, and again they enjoy themselves. They continue to see each other regularly, and after a while neither one of them is seeing anybody else.
And then, one evening when they're driving home, a thought occurs to Elaine, and without really thinking, she says it aloud:
SS: Do you realize that, as of tonight, we've been seeing each other for exactly six months?
GK: And then there is silence in the car. To Elaine, it seems like a very loud silence. She's thinking...
SS (INTERIOR: Geez, I wonder if it bothers him that I said that. Maybe he's been feeling confined by our relationship; maybe he thinks I'm trying to push him into some kind of obligation that he doesn't want, or isn't sure of.)
GK: And Roger is thinking...
DB (INTERIOR: Gosh. Six months.)
GK: And Elaine is thinking...
SS: (But, hey, I'm not so sure I want this kind of relationship either. Sometimes I wish I had a little more space, so I'd have time to think about whether I really want us to keep going the way we are, moving steadily toward . . . I mean, where are we going? Are we just going to keep seeing each other at the level of intimacy? Are we heading toward Marriage? Toward children? Toward a lifetime together? Am I ready for that level of commitment? Do I really even know this person?)
GK: And Roger is thinking...
DB: (...so that means it was... let's see . . .February when we started going out, which was right after I had the car at the dealer's, which means . . . lemme check the odometer . ..Whoa! I am way overdue for an oil change here.)
GK: And Elaine is thinking...
SS: (He's upset. I can see it on his face. Maybe I'm reading this completely wrong. Maybe he wants more from our relationship, more intimacy, more commitment; maybe he has sensed - even before I sensed it - that I was feeling some reservations. Yes, I bet that's it. That's why he's so reluctant to say anything about his own feelings: He's afraid of being rejected.)
GK: And Roger is thinking...
DB: (And I'm gonna have them look at the transmission again. I don't care what those morons say, it's still not shifting right. And they better not try to blame it on the cold weather this time. What cold weather? It's eighty-seven degrees out, and this thing is shifting like a garbage truck!)
GK: And Elaine is thinking...
SS: (He's angry. And I don't blame him. I'd be angry, too. God, I feel so guilty, putting him through this, but I can't help the way I feel. I'm just not sure.)
GK: And Roger is thinking...
DB: (They'll probably say it's only a ninety-day warranty. That's exactly what they're gonna say, the scumballs.)
GK: And Elaine is thinking...
SS: (Maybe I'm just too idealistic, waiting for a knight to come riding up on his white horse, when I'm sitting right next to a perfectly good person, a person I enjoy being with, a person I truly do care about, a person who seems to truly care about me. A person who is in pain because of my self-centered, schoolgirl romantic fantasy.)
GK: And Roger is thinking...
DB: (Warranty? They want a warranty? I'll give them a goddamn warranty!)
GK: Finally, Elaine, unable to stand it any longer, speaks:
SS: Roger
DB: What?
SS: Please don't torture yourself like this. (STARTING TO CRY) Maybe I should never have . . . O God, I feel so . . . (BREAK DOWN SOBBING)
DB: What?
SS: I'm such a fool. (STILL SOBBING) I mean, I know there's no knight. I really know that. It's silly. There's no knight, and there's no horse.
DB: There's no horse?
SS: You think I'm a fool, don't you.
DB: No!
SS: It's just that . . . It's that I . . .I need some time.
GK: There is a long pause as Roger, thinking as fast as he can, tries to come up with a safe response. Finally, he comes up with one that he thinks might work.
DB: Yes.
GK: Elaine, deeply moved, touches his hand...
SS: Oh, Roger, do you really feel that way?
DB: What way?
SS: That way about time.
DB: Oh. Yes.
GK: Elaine gazes into Roger's eyes, causing him to become very concerned about what she might say next, especially if it involves a horse.
SS: Thank you, Roger.
DB: Thank you.
GK: Then Roger takes Elaine home, and she lies on her bed, a conflicted, tortured soul, and weeps until dawn, whereas when Roger gets back to his place, he opens a bag of Doritos, turns on the TV, and immediately becomes deeply involved in a rerun of a tennis match between two Czechoslovakians he has never heard of.
DB: A tiny voice in the far recesses of his mind tells him that something major was going on back there in the car, but he is pretty sure there is no way he would ever understand what, and so he figures it's better if he doesn't think about it. This is also Roger's policy regarding world hunger.
The next day Elaine will call her closest friend, and they will talk about this situation for six straight hours. In painstaking detail, they will analyze everything she said and everything he said, going over it time and time again, exploring every word, expression, and gesture for nuances of meaning considering every possible ramification. They will continue to discuss this subject, off and on, for weeks, maybe months, never reaching any definite conclusions, but never getting bored with it either.
GK: Meanwhile, Roger, while playing racquetball one day with a mutual friend of his and Elaine's will pause just before serving, frown, and say
DB: Norm, did Elaine ever own a horse?
© 1997 by Dave Barry

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